Alive Counseling

Jeff Wilfong, LMFT, LPCC, LPC, MHC

Jeff Wilfong, Marriage and Family Therapist provides Counseling, Coaching, offers counseling, coaching, phone/Skype/email treatment, hypnotherapy, nondual therapy, and mindfulness training services.

My name is Jeff Wilfong and have been a psychotherapist since 2006. I am licensed in California as both a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (46654) and a Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor (159), in Oregon as a Licensed Professional Counselor (C3836), and in Washington as a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LH60496399). I provide counseling, psychotherapy, therapy, coaching and hypnotherapy to adults, teens, couples, and adolescents via in-office sessions, Skype or Facetime (video therapy), phone and email treatment options.

Do you want a therapist who is easy to talk with, friendly, open, and focuses on practical solutions? If so, you have found your counselor. I have provided therapy for the past 10 years and help individuals with a wide range of concerns. Knowing that long-term therapy can be expensive, I can work quickly with you to figure out what is going on and develop some realistic goals. Next, I can mentor and coach you as we jointly tackle the solutions. I provide treatment to adults, couples and teens, utilizing diverse approaches to match client needs. Let us get to the finish line together.

I have been influenced by many psychological theories and modalities, and enjoy treating the “whole person.” Values which are important to me, include: respect, trust, honesty, non-judgmental awareness, humor, and direct communication. People say I am approachable, curious and perceptive.

I have extensive expertise in East-West therapy, which is based on mindfulness and other helpful principles. I meditate and read to stay current in the field of psychology. I offer in-person office appointments, Skype, Facetime, video, phone and email treatment options. Free phone consultations available.

Find me on Psychology Today here or here.

Areas of focus:

  • ADHD
  • Addiction
  • Alcohol Abuse
  • Antisocial Personality
  • Anxiety
  • Bipolar Disorder
  • Career Counseling
  • Child or Adolescent
  • Chronic Illness
  • Chronic Impulsivity
  • Chronic Pain
  • Codependency
  • Coping Skills
  • Couples Issues
  • Dissociative Disorders
  • Divorce
  • Domestic Abuse
  • Domestic Violence
  • Drug Abuse
  • Dual Diagnosis
  • Emotional Disturbance
  • Family Conflict
  • Grief
  • Impulse Control Disorders
  • Infidelity
  • Internet Addiction
  • Lesbian, Gay or Bisexual
  • Life Coaching
  • Life Transitions
  • Marital and Premarital
  • Men’s Issues
  • Mood Disorders
  • Narcissistic Personality
  • Obesity
  • Obsessive-Compulsive (OCD)
  • Peer Relationships
  • Personality Disorders
  • School Issues
  • Self Esteem
  • Self-Harming
  • Sex Therapy
  • Sexual Abuse
  • Sexual Addiction
  • Sleep or Insomnia
  • Spirituality
  • Stress
  • Substance Abuse
  • Suicidal Ideation
  • Thinking Disorders
  • Trauma and PTSD
  • Video Game Addiction

Jeff’s techniques:

  • Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
  • Coaching
  • Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
  • Culturally Sensitive
  • Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)
  • Eclectic
  • Emotionally Focused
  • Existential
  • Experiential Therapy
  • Family / Marital
  • Family Systems
  • Feminist
  • Gottman Method Couples Therapy (GMCT)
  • Humanistic
  • Hypnotherapy
  • Integrative
  • Interpersonal
  • Mindfulness-based Cognitive Therapy (MBCT)
  • Motivational Interviewing
  • Multicultural
  • Narrative
  • Person-Centered
  • Positive Psychology
  • Reality Therapy
  • Relational
  • Schema Therapy
  • Solution Focused Brief (SFBT)
  • Strength Based
  • Transpersonal


  • DBT Skills (The Linehan Institute)
  • DBT Chain Analysis (The Linehan Institute)
  • DBT Validation Principles & Strategies (The Linehan Institute)
  • Gottman Method Couples Therapy – Levels 1, 2, 3
  • Sex, Tech, Intimacy and Addiction
  • Sex & Love Addiction Expanded: Relationship Disturbance and Other Issues
  • And more…


Counseling, Coaching, and Hypnotherapy sessions
$110 per each 50 minute session

Phone, Skype, Email Services, Facetime,, Emergency services, Other
$2 per each minute

I accept cash, credit cards or PayPal. You may attempt to link your Health Savings Account (HSA) or other health credit card via PayPal. No checks.

Insurance (PPO/HMO/EAP) and Victims of Crime (VOC) policies: Jeff Wilfong and Alive Counseling are not contracted with any insurance carrier (PPO/HMO/EAP). Jeff is not a Victims of Crime (VOC) provider. Therefore, all clients are financially responsible to pay Alive Counseling out-of-pocket for any and all fees, as they are provided or billed. Jeff will write a ‘letter of support’ approximately every six sessions containing: 1) service dates, 2) service codes, 3) billed and received payment amounts, 4) diagnosis, and 5) the office address where service was provided to you. This letter will be given to clients so they may seek reimbursement on their own. No promises are made that insurers will reimburse.

Contact Jeff Wilfong for a free consultation today to see how therapy can help you. You can either email him () or call him (888-511-4269). You can read about the many services he offers here.


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Career Coaching & Life Coaching
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Contact Jeff Wilfong for a free consultation today to see how therapy can help you. You can either email him () or call him (888-511-4269). You can read about the many services he offers here.